these are some of the things said to me in the week gone by...
somewhere they did leave behind a mark...an impression...from which i hope to improve myself...
i dont know if i will be able to...but that shouldent stop me from trying i guess...
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"pri, u know where the problem lies...yes u do...but somewhere everytime it comes before you, u prefer to close your eyes and let it pass u by...and that way, u never really face it even though u feel u do"
---the evil di on a 'not so happy' evening
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"im seriously beginning to feel im suffering from 'bipolar disorder" too
---urs truly to a friend after speaking to a patient with the same :-/
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"ur being so difficult priyanka...what do u really want? do u even know??
u keep saying that ur life is very stubborn...but u know what??
i think YOU are..."
---a bugged friend on a major decision
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"it wont be the same without you......but both of us know that itll all be just the same with or without me"
---a very good friend on leaving back for seattle...
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"priyanka, in life, u need to ask questions.....but if u dont get any answers, u should leave those questions alone....stop searching for answers which dont even exist"
---the 'know all' di who somehow always manages to make me feel that my gut instincts are mere coincidences...
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"purple would look just perfecttt"
---a smartass friend on suggesting that i should streak my hair :-/
(with friends like these, who needs enemies?? sigh!)
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"im fed up of you....i wish u were never born...atleast we would be free of the tension u give us..."
---my mom after a huge arguement which has almost become part of routine nowadays(how i wish i was never born too)
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"thats the secret to life---replace one worry with another"
---a status message by 'illusion' which made me smile :)
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somewhere somehow everything said to us leaves an imprint on our heart...our mind...our conscience...
some fade with time...some never manage to...as they surface up every now and then when the winds of time blow off the dust covering them....
they say 'actions speak louder than words' ---true!!
but when it comes to hurting someone, sometimes words are just enough........
take care!
somethings ...er! sorry! some words..some careless... some carefully laid out.. some shouted...some screamed.. some "whatever" make a difference...
ReplyDeleteto moi too :)
Some of those words made me think. A very impressive post. Thanks!
ReplyDeleteBTW..how have u been?
kitna philosophy dete hai log :P
ReplyDeletei hope you're okie pri!
What a soul-searching week!
ReplyDeleteHow are you surrounded by people who seem to have come out from movies?
babes u alright dear, chill kaar yaar...dont analyse so much, the weeks almost ending am sure next week will be a good one for u....
ReplyDeleteI think a lot of stuff like this, and some times I tell hubby and he goes all wide-eyed, saying, yeh sab kahaan se aata hai dimaag mein?
ReplyDeleteall these big big philosophies are all so phaltu, think abt the present, the "right now" is so good, isn't it?
i completely agreed wid wat ur sis said :D
ReplyDeletei can understand... people say a lot sometimes without even thinking of the impact their words will have on the other person
ReplyDeleteTake care pri..
ReplyDeleteI wish I could stop searching for answers..
On a lighter note, get your hair rainbow colored :) And then we will make Love Story 2100 with u playing the lead :D
@ veens
ReplyDeleteur right...every word makes a difference when it is said by people who matter :)
@ pavi!!
thanks but apart from venting out,this was mainly written as a memory accoun from which i hope to improve myself...
@ luckydivz
yes i am...rnt we always 'okay'? :)
@ solitaire
life always lives up to its status of a 'soul searching quest' for each of us...just that some of us dont stop and notice...
lol! besides when uve got a 'blockbuster' like life as mine, u cant expect people around to be any different from the movies...
@ princess mia
ReplyDeletei think il'l take ur word for that :)
thanks
@ aneri_masi
but this has all been happening right now...
the week has not yet long been gone is it? :(
@ abhishek khanna
i agree with her too...just that it hits u hard when someone else points it out to you...
@ ash89
well yes..it hurts you only when it is from the ones u matter....
but i guess we can change it into a positive experience by learning from it...
because sometimes even the truth hurts bigtime but that dosent change the fact that it still is the truth...
@ urv
umm not a bad idea...
as long as i dont have to star opposite a 'harman (yuckk) baweja' :p
aww... they say wounds can heal but words will always hurt :-(
ReplyDeletesometimes words can hurt more than anything and we all use it every now and then and become the victim of it too, intentionally or not.. thats the part of life, we will never be able to change it
ReplyDeleteI too just wrote a post on Words on Psychobabble!
ReplyDeleteCame to participate in Story Time and saw your post again. Thought I'll tell you.
That's enough for making a 'pagal' speechless; sometime someone just lost with words for the shake of something that ultimately is nothing more than a blank gaze. How I wonder the meaning of this life take a turn at that point…
ReplyDeleteI too have a few people words most of the times ringing in my mind. Directly or indirectly these words sometimes help us to shape ourselves. good post.
ReplyDeletecheers :-)
i'll say just that "take care"
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